Archive for November, 2009
Quality Time Together is Essential for Love
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Quality Time is Essential for Love to Grow
Spending Quality Time Together
As we grow up to adulthood, we develop our own likes and dislikes. We have our favorite colors, hobbies, pastimes, movies, games and a whole lot of other preferences that are characteristically unique to us. The more time we live our lives as individuals, the more such preferences get entrenched in our personalities. This can have positive as well as negative consequences, as some people develop a skill around their passion and eventually turn it into a profession. Most artistes like actors or singers most probably started out as enthusiasts in their own line of interests. But since they were passionate enough to put their heart and soul into the very thing that they were interested in, they have gone on to develop their skill to such as extent that they could turn it into a professional source of income. Read More→
The Truth about Self Care
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The Truth About Self Care
When you meet a person you like very much and would want to start a serious relationship with them, you must be careful that you do not pretend to be someone you are not. People often make this mistake. They assume either rightly or wrongly that the other person likes certain traits and then go ahead and try to superficially exhibit those traits. For instance men sometimes try to impress their fiancés by spending much beyond their capacity. Read More→
Making a Lasting Impression
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Honesty In a relationship
Show Up As Yourself
First impressions do have a lasting impact. Some human resource managers say that it takes them just a few seconds to form a first impression. So be your best self, but your real self. But sometimes that is not a fair judgement, people are nervous, have qualities that may show up later and may look or feel what looks totally not for you at first sight might even turn out to be a whole lot appealing much later.. But generally speaking, people do form an opinion about us as soon as they set their eyes on us. So it is important to do our best to put our best foot forward for that all important first meeting which would most probably set the trend for the relationship for the coming years. Read More→
The Role of Honesty in a Relationship
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The Role of Honesty
The Role of Honesty
Every relationship is based on trust. We buy a car trusting that the manufacturer has done a good job and that the vehicle will run according to the specifications prescribed. We buy foodstuff from the market believing it is pure and healthy for our bodies. We may not realize it often, but trust is something that we practice almost every single day of our lives. Society and life in general cannot go ahead without this basic element in a social relationship. We need to trust one another and others need to be worthy recipients of our trust. In other words, people whom we trust need to reciprocate by being trust worthy. When people betray our trust, it becomes very difficult to bear the emotional consequences that go with it. Read More→
Is the Honeymoon Over?
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Of course every relationship is completely different, depending on our upbringing, culture and many other factors. When you first fall in love with someone, you would treat them nicely, as if they’re everything that ever mattered to you in life. However, when you get used to each other, you start to take for granted the relationship you once shared, it appears as if loving someone has given some change to insensitivity. It’s not uncommon to find someone treating strangers, colleagues, and business acquaintances better than their close someone.Many a times, people become thoughtless, disrespectful and inconsiderate, resulting in a damaged relationship, a communication breakdown, and a fragmented self-esteem.
Simply put, if we cannot nurture and cherish those people close to us, the ones we live with under the same roof, how do we expect to liberate and change the entire world from war, self-interest, and greed? We should endeavor to make that conscious effort to be forgiving, loving, caring, and accepting of those close to us. This entails not being belittling, critical, sarcastic, etc but being self-less, and generous. Read More→


