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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
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Healing Your Marriage after an Affair
By Ateidi
Have you recently discovered that your spouse is a cheat? Has it left you totally shocked? Do you start doubting yourself and wonder if your marriage can survive that affair? Many marriages have survived affairs and often it has been found that the marriage was better after it. While you may be hurt and may blame your spouse for cheating on you, it may show that all was not right with your relationship. There was something that was missing in the relationship that caused him to stray, not that was the correct way to show it, but as a lack of communication was drawn toward what he thought would fill the void. Read More→
Forgiveness in Love and Relationships
Posted by: | CommentsForgiveness in Love and Relationships
Marriage is intended to bring two people together; but there is no way to make two people happy or guarantee that is was the match made in heaven as it seemed at the time.
Every marriage at one point or another is going to face turmoil. Some situation, turn of events, harsh spoken words or actions will completely, knock one off their feet; leading to, anger, frustration and pain or any number of effects depending on the person.
It can be as monumental as infidelity or a little white lie or a pile of little white lies, and in order to get through it, – forgiveness is necessary, whatever the outcome you choose. Read More→
Save My Marriage Now
Posted by: | CommentsDon’t Wait or Put It Off, if the Marriage is in Trouble, it Needs Rescue Now!
All you want to do is hide, hide the pain, make look nice in front of family and friends but the truth is obvious to you and to them, so get Help!
First of all acknowledge there is a problem, not in the heat of the moment, talk to your spouse and let them you that you are aware that things are not the way they should be, and ask how he or she is feeling about the relationship, where is the pain for them and talk about the options before it is too late.
There are many consideration’s, has there been infidelity or suspected infidelity, and if so can you overcome this?
Do you feel a gap, a sense of apathy, or just taken for granted, but you must get to the root of the problem before you can move forward, but you must move to the next step.
If you cannot talk things out, it is time to see a counsellor an unbiased 3rd party to help ask the questions that neither of you may ask. Read More→