Quality Time Together is Essential for Love
November 22, 2009
Quality Time is Essential for Love to Grow
Spending Quality Time Together
As we grow up to adulthood, we develop our own likes and dislikes. We have our favorite colors, hobbies, pastimes, movies, games and a whole lot of other preferences that are characteristically unique to us. The more time we live our lives as individuals, the more such preferences get entrenched in our personalities. This can have positive as well as negative consequences, as some people develop a skill around their passion and eventually turn it into a profession. Most artistes like actors or singers most probably started out as enthusiasts in their own line of interests. But since they were passionate enough to put their heart and soul into the very thing that they were interested in, they have gone on to develop their skill to such as extent that they could turn it into a professional source of income.While a passion that earns a livelihood for a person is a very good thing, if it turns into an addiction that simply drains a person of their time and financial resources, it could become a nasty problem to deal with. For instance, so many people are addicted to the Internet and social networks these days that most of their productive time is being wasted in chatting endlessly online. One’s work, health and finances can get affected in the long run if they don’t take precautions to keep things under check. As long as a person stays single, such addictions might affect only the person involved. But on the other, if the person is married or is in the process of getting married, such activity can affect their marriage relationship as well.
We have heard of so many wives complain that once their husband’s favorite games are on TV, they virtually get hooked on to the box for the entire season. The wives feel lost and hurt when their spouses are so involved in their particular interest even to the point of totally neglecting their duties as head of the household. The best solution for such a problem is for the couple to get involved in a particular activity together. When both of them get interested in a particular game or activity together, the more time they spend in the activity, the more time they would get to spend with each other which is what a marriage relationship is all about. Moreover, if it turns out to be a pursuit that they thoroughly enjoy together, these times can become memorable occasions that they would want to return to time and again.
The modern day lifestyle is so demanding that it hardly gives an opportunity for a husband and wife to spend time together. In fact the only time they are together is when they are asleep, which in fact does not help the relationship in any measure. The amount of time that they get to spend interacting with each other during their moments awake is what really matters. If couples can only learn to play a game together, learn something new as a team, travel alone together or volunteer their efforts for a worthy cause as a couple, they can truly see their relationship getting stronger and more enjoyable every single day.
Wonderul Team Author Jan
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Every relationship requires quality time so as to strengthen the bond of the relationship. The couple should not get alienated and distant from each other. However at the same time it is important to allow your partner to get some space. Men require some time for themselves. This is because his job may be physically and mentally draining. He should not be disturbed during the time when he is trying to be alone. Try to greet him when he returns after a day’s work and give him sufficient space. Men generally prefer an exclusively separate place that is completely their own domain. There are several reasons because of which men need space. When there is any problem on any issue, they want to work it out on their own. They also want to ponder over the thought of making money. They should be given enough time to practice their hobbies and recreational pursuits. Moreover, relaxation also requires space and last but not the least they should be given separate time to carry out some guy stuffs.
This is a wonderful topic and I just cant seem to have enough of it! Yes quality time is a must and all you newly weds might be wondering how to get enough of it. Let me tell you some secrets.. Enjoying alone time together means a situation where you are completely alone without any friends or family members. Spontaneity always adds a touch of excitement to your staying together. When something is unplanned, the things tend to be more exciting and interesting. You should not always wait for your partner to organize some occasion of togetherness. Instead, make a surprise planning for him so as to spend time together. Try to do as many things as possible together so as to enjoy the maximum amount of satisfaction. Spending time together does not require money and does not involve any pain. If you want to unwind together, you can share a glass of wine in the quiet hours of night. Or simply hold hands as you gaze toward sunset —as a woman married for the last 10 years let me tell you that often silence can mean to be a lot of words.