Comments on: Sexless Relationships, WHY?

By: Andrea

Andrea — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 05:42:36 +0000

Thank you for your comments, you have shared what many women have experienced regarding sex. I think as generations have changed so has the act of making love and importance of sex. Today many people gauge how well their marriage is according to the amount and quality of sex. I have known of couples who have lived in a sexless marriage and been quite happy just to be together and love each other, however it becomes a problem when one of the couple desires the sexual contact and sex is either being with held or the other person just has no interest in sex, when this becomes a problem it is time to get help before it interferes and breaks down the rest of the relationship, again, thanks you for your sharing,
Andrea

By: admin

admin — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 21:21:15 +0000

You have made an excellent point, so many people assume that sex is imperative to a full relationship. I have known of people who have not had sex for many years and if they have it has not been a good or fullfilling experience. And another point for us too look at is people with disabilities where they have been unable to have sex for a various reasons and people with emotional or mental issues where the want for sex is not there.
It just goes to show, life in any way is not simple nor cut and dried the way we think some times.
Thank you for you comments, they are truly appreciated,
Andrea

By: Amy

Amy — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 04:24:40 +0000

Someone said sex is a human need, and I really don’t believe it.
My husband and I have been married 40 years and 25 years are without sex. Before we were married we talked about our sex lives.
My husband said that I was his first and only sex partner. And also if we hadn’t married he felt no real need for sex. I was also a virgin when married and really had no idea what sex was all about. It sounds naieve but thats the truth. Our sex life was pretty shabby, but we had kids and spent all our time bringing them up. Sex was pushed to the bottom of the list, and it fell right off into no mans land and hasn’t returned. I still have the urge for sex but husband dosen;t want to go.